On Lust

What the Voyeur spent 30-plus years not understanding was that the distance, the difference of beauty was actually good itself*. He saw every lovely woman as a thing to be contained, to be brought under his control, to be drawn near to himself. In love we speak of a lover who giveshimself or herself to us, because that is what we desire: the whole self for ourselves. We are taught by culture to see the distance of beauty–the beautiful woman outside of our grasp–as a problem to be overcome or a sign of our failure, and so we want her to either disappear or to acquiesce to our power. But it’s all wrong.

Read more of my feature at Christ and Pop Culture.

Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: